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		<title>阅读笔记：《不可预知时代的可预知结果》</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; 不可预知时代的可预知结果　005 第1章： 出色做好要事 13 是否每个人都知道他们要做什么 / [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><font size=3></font></span>&nbsp;</p>
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<p style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><font size=3>不可预知时代的可预知结果　<span lang=EN-US>005<o:p></o:p></span></font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">第</span><span lang=EN-US>1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">章：</span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">出色做好要事</span> <span lang=EN-US>13</span></font></h2>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">是否每个人都知道他们要做什么</span><span lang=EN-US> / 17</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【清晰地定义目标】</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">如果你要完成关键的目标才能成功，那你就要把这个目标定义清晰，而要想定义清晰，你则必须清楚地描述何为成功。最好的描述方法就是回答这个问题：“什么时候能实现</span><span lang=EN-US>X</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">到</span><span lang=EN-US>Y</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">？”现在你用多少资源，到年底你想节省多少？现在你从网络渠道获取多少利润，本季度你想盈利多少？什么叫做领先的供应商？我们离领先者还有多远？我们要用多长时间才能做到这一点？</span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【事前分析】</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>一个明智的领导人会关注事前分析。事前分析会帮助团队成员集中在三到四个关键行为上，这些行为是团队可以控制的，是能给他们带来理想结果的。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【建立定期交流制度】</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>如果你不问目标实现得如何，团队成员就不会去关心它，他们有很多事情要做。如果你不是经常地、不断地检查目标实现的进程，团队成员就会以为你不在乎这个目标，他们就会继续做平常做的事情。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>作为员工，则需要定期反馈。提醒老板不要忘了这方面的主要目标是什么。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>成功的团队总是定期地、经常碰面，至少每周一次，有时甚至每天一次。他们回顾在实现目标过程中取得的进步。这些碰面会很简单，团队成员通过观看进程可以知道自己处在什么位置。他们可以报告自己做了些什么，讨论学习到的经验，制定下一步行动计划，并分配新的工作内容。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【领导者必须做四件事】</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">你是否在</span><span lang=EN-US>“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">推动中游</span><span lang=EN-US>” / 35</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">提高生产力的关键因素是让处于中间位置的雇员提高工作参与度，他们构成了公司</span><span lang=EN-US>60%</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">的生产力。</span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3></font></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【把优秀员工的优秀行为变成你组织的标准】</font></span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l13 level1 lfo13" class=MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">建立标准。</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">把接近或符合前</span><span lang=EN-US>20%</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">优秀人士的业绩设为目标。让这些目标清晰可见，并使用让团队成员知道如何执行并转化为行动实现目标。</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></b></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【问问你的团队成员如何提升业绩】</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>假如你想提高一个团队的业绩，问一下他们对自己成功的理解。如果我问别人：“你认为什么是成功？你如何才能取得成功？”相必我一定能收获不少。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>领导者的任务就是把团队已有的潜力开发出来。</font></span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l15 level1 lfo1" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">对于每一个目标，有哪些指示成功的事前分析指标？（记得用下面这个公式把它表述出来：什么时候可以实现从</span><span lang=EN-US>X</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">到</span><span lang=EN-US>Y</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">？）</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l8 level1 lfo4" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">何时、何地、如何去维护、分析这些指标？</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></b></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l17 level1 lfo3" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">你要采取什么措施保证业绩中等的人向这些优秀者靠近？</span> <span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></b></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">学习的最好办法就是教。老师比学生学的更多，这是很简单的道理。如果你真的想把本章学的东西内化，那么接下来，你要找其他人</span><span lang=EN-US>&#8211;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">同事、朋友、家庭成员，把你学到的东西交给他们。先问问自己这些问题，激起兴趣，然后自己寻找答案。</span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>医生看到法拉利赛车队然后提高工作有序性的故事。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>信任总是影响两个可测量的结果：速度和成本。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>如果你真的信任某个人，握个手就能谈成生意。</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">你是在支付信任税，还是在收获信任红利</span><span lang=EN-US> / 60</span></font></h2>
<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">两个团队的传奇故事</span><span lang=EN-US> / 61</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>高信任度团队；低信任度团队。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>你可以建立这样一个团队，别人会完全放心地把任务托付给你。这个团队人人有归属感，他们是带着“信任的速度”前进的。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>快速地建立信任、获取收益是可能的，解决的办法是认真开展建立信任的运动。</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">建立信任的三大行为</span><span lang=EN-US> / 65</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>相信别人，别人才会相信你。领导者进行微观管理、事事亲力亲为是一种“伪信任”。</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">值得信任的人格</span><span lang=EN-US> / 71</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>人品好来自两个方面：行为真诚，而且高尚。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>“为什么有些公司经得住经济危机的冲击？”</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>坎特：因为这些公司不断强调价值观和道德……他们感觉有责任为这个世界留下有指价值的东西。他们不会因为世道不好就放弃这种责任感。</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">认真开展建立信任运动</span><span lang=EN-US> / 74</span></font></h2>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; BACKGROUND: yellow; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-highlight: yellow">付诸实践</span><span lang=EN-US>/ 78</span></font></h2>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l14 level1 lfo5" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">为什么在危机时刻，信任这么重要？信任能够带来哪些可以量化的差别？</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l14 level1 lfo5" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">“存在于社会中的广泛的不信任使人们在从事所有经济活动时，都要支付信任税，这种信任税原本在高度信任的社会中是不存在的。”经济学家福山说。问你的合作者这个引语背后的含义，信任为什么成为了一个经济问题？</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l14 level1 lfo5" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在低信任度的环境中，公司效率和成本会发生什么样的变化？你能举出哪些例子？</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l14 level1 lfo5" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在高信任度的环境中，公司效率和成本会发生什么样的变化？你能举出哪些例子？</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l14 level1 lfo5" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">为什么信任是一个制度问题，而不仅仅是道德品质问题？</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l14 level1 lfo5" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">为什么信任依赖于遵守承诺和义务？如果你没有遵守承诺、履行义务，将会发生什么？</span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>我们需要扪心自问：这个时代需要面面俱到呢，还是要集中精力做最重要的事情呢？</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>【事半功倍】</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>“事半功倍”的真正含义是什么？它是否意味着现在你需要更少的人就能完成以前的任务？你说你做到了“事半功倍”，那“功”指的是什么？成功的组织在一下两方面做到事半功倍：</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>如果客户是满意的，满意度是多少？客户忠诚吗？</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>忠诚的客户会重复购买，如果你的企业倒闭了，他们会想念你的。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>做更多客户关心的事，尽量不要做客户不关心的事。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>客户真正需要我们为他们做什么？</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">将公司的发展与客户价值联系起来</span><span lang=EN-US> / 93</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>到了该思考一下，哪些事情对你而言很重要，到了该询问自己到底想要什么样的生活的时候了。是时候做出艰难的选择，抛弃那些令你分心的事务，回头看看你失去的，并且看看前方是否有块金子激励着你继续前进。</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">事半功倍计划</span><span lang=EN-US> / 99</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>这个计划将会帮你列出每个具体步骤，从而提高团队的工作效率</font></span></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>培养客户忠诚度</font></span></h3>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>尝试回答下列问题，有助于你弄清楚如何才能为客户提供更多他们认为有价值的产品和服务。</font></span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo10" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">对你们团队来说，哪些人是最重要的客户（内部客户</span><span lang=EN-US>/</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">或外部客户）？</span></font></p>
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<h3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>将客户价值整合到组织发展中</font></span></h3>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>现在你已经弄清楚客户希望你为他们做些什么，尝试回答下列问题将有助于团队完成工作：</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>根据你对上述问题给出的答案，兑现下面的承诺，从而达到事倍功半的效果。</font></span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l7 level1 lfo9" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">为了客户获得更多，我们将花较少的时间和资源在【没有增加客户价值的体系、过程或任务上】</span></font></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l9 level1 lfo6" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">“做更多的工作”与“创造更多的价值”之间的区别是什么？</span></font></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">心理恐慌的代价是什么</span><span lang=EN-US> / 106</span></font></h2>
<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">恐慌对你的公司和员工的影响</span><span lang=EN-US> / 107</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>告诉他们事情：公司现在处于什么境况？数目有多少？将会有什么影响？实事求是地告诉员工目前所处的境况。</font></span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo17" class=MsoListParagraph><![if !supportLists]><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings" lang=EN-US><span style="mso-list: Ignore">l<span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp; </span></span></span><![endif]><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">讨论下一步计划</span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>如果你有一个策略，那么把它写下来，列出详细的条目（如果你没有，那么赶紧将情况说明，寻求大家的帮助），描述一下将来一定会发生的事情，以及每个人必须担当的角色，给员工一次机会来分享他们的感情、关心以及想法。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>“告诉员工我们是一个冷静的、理性的团队。灌输这种集体感有利于集思广益。”</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">化焦虑为工作激情</span><span lang=EN-US> / 111</span></font></h2>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">恐惧的根源</span><span lang=EN-US> / 112</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>习得性无助感：是指当有机体接连不断地受到挫折后产生的一种无能为力、听天由命的心态。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>思考的习惯不必一成不变……个体能够选择自己思考问题的方式。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>关注“影响圈”，而不是“担忧圈”。</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">关注你的影响圈，你自然就不会去关注那些不可预知的因素，你会把注意力集中在能够预测的事情上面。无论任何时候，只要你认为存在问题，那么这种想法本身恰恰就是个问题。这些问题最终会控制我们。好的办法是，变不可控为可控</span><span lang=EN-US>—</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在事情发展到超出我们的可控范围之前就把问题解决掉。</span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>、</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>积极的办法是变问题为动力：我可以获得更多的资源，我可以更勤奋，我可以更有创造性，我可以更有合作精神。</font></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>采取知识时代的领导模式</font></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在知识时代，是以人们做出的杰出贡献来评价他人的</span><span lang=EN-US>—</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">学习能力、适应能力、创新能力、捕捉商业机会的能力。作为知识时代的领导者，你需要释放、发动、接受不同的观点，你要将人们完成任务的热情调动起来。</span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>释放人的思维而不是限制思维。信任是人类动力的最高级形式。</font></span></p>
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<h2><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">减少恐惧计划</span><span lang=EN-US> / 123</span></font></h2>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><font size=3>这个计划工具可以帮助你将自己的注意力集中在减少团队的恐惧感和提高他们的参与度上来。在每个问题上花点时间，在组织中，向你的老板、你的团队、你的同事提出这些问题。</font></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>1.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">是否团队中的每一个成员都知道团队的目标？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>3.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">是否团队中的每一个成员都知道评价标准，换句话说，是否每个人都知道成功具体指什么？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>4.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">团队成员是否定期地聚会（至少每周聚一次），讨论团队实现目标的情况？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3>&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>5.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">你是否在积极推进“推动中游”计划，帮助每一个人朝着最优秀的方向前进？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3>&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>6.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">重复性业务在你的收益中是否占据了很高的比例？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3>&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>7.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">与同行业平均水平相比，公司员工的离职率是否更低？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>8.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">你能否确定你所做的工作是你的客户真正想要你为他们做的？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>9.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">客户和你的关系是否简单、顺畅？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span lang=EN-US>10.</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">你的团队是否为了完成任务可以勇往直前，而不是陷入担心和焦虑之中？</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">总计：是</span><span       lang=EN-US>/</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">否</span></font></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font       size=3><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">总分</span><span       lang=EN-US>=</span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">（）（“是”的数目）</span></font></p>
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		<title>豆瓣笔记整理（2）&#8211;读拿破仑·希尔有感</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; 每年都会看那本经典的《拿破仑·希尔成功之道全书》，笔记做了三四种形式，手写笔记、电子笔记、思维导 [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<div style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p>每年都会看那本经典的《拿破仑·希尔成功之道全书》，笔记做了三四种形式，手写笔记、电子笔记、思维导图笔记等等，虽然还没有做到书中所说的那样好，但生活变得积极是由这本书开始，回忆拿破仑·希尔的书，以及带来的启示，这些笔记最初写在<a href="http://www.douban.com/people/hujianfei1989/">豆瓣</a>：</o:p></span></div>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font face=宋体></font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>1.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">全神贯注、专心致志地做正在做的事情。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>2.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">积极心态、要自信、要果断，要坚定，要执着！</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>3.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">改掉坏习惯的最佳方式养成一个新习惯，一直重复新习惯以至于忘了旧习惯。</span><font face=Calibri> </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">心灵上的路程越走越通畅。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>4.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">要自动自发地做事，而不是等到想做的时候才行动，做“任何事”都要积极，主动去做。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>5.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">立刻、马上、现在就做是很有力量的字眼。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>6.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">常常给自己积极的心理暗示。词句要简单、有力、充满动力。用胸腔和腹部发音，给人一种铿锵有力的感觉。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>7.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">热情。要有热情，无论在什么情况下，都要满腔热情。而保持热情的首要方式是行动热情。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>8.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">多做一点点。多付出的努力会有收获。一直在付出的人才会在某一天有收获。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>9.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">暗示。积极的心理暗示是一种很强大的力量。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>10.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">让自己忙起来，直到没有时间思考是不是快乐。当投入到正在做的事情中，你绝对是快乐着的。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>11.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">懂得放松。让全身放松，软绵绵的。当全神贯注的时候，是一个全身心放松的状态。</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>12.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">发挥你的想象力。在做一件事情的时候，想象它完成的样子，想象你通过什么方式完成。完成这件事应该处于什么样的状态，呼吸状况是怎样的？</span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>13.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">计划。要有清楚的计划和达成目标的步骤。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>14.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">让自己放轻松的方法：听音乐、看电影、写作、跑步、去健身房、总结前一段时间的生活、回忆以前快乐的事情…</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>15.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">事情的可替代性。当你快乐的时候，就不会有烦恼。当养成新习惯，就会取代就习惯。如果心态积极，消极心态也就没有位置了。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>16.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">坚定的决心。自信与坚定的决心有无可比拟的力量。应该给自己积极的心理暗示，并表现出你坚定的决心。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>17.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">一次只做一件事。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>18.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">定期回到集中注意力的状态。给自己暗示，定时地让自己回到集中注意力的状态。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>19.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">思考总结。每天晚上睡觉之前花半个小时进行思考总结：今天做了什么？有什么可以做的更好地？进行深度冥想。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>20.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">冥想。当遇到不能轻易解决的事情时，花一个比较集中的时间段来进行冥想。在这个时间段里，没人打扰。写下自己在冥想过程中的所有想法。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>21.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">专注。注意你所注意的事情，应当能够引导你积极思考，不断探究并且能学到新的东西。在人生的每个阶段，都要主动去找寻需要学习的东西。在思考时，要专注。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>22.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">时间。注意节约时间，充分利用时间。在时间固定的情况下，利用时间的最佳方式就是提高效率。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>23.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">想到才能做到。你能做到什么，要看你能想到什么。发挥想象力，不要给自己设限。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>24.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">最重要的是不要去看远方模糊的，而要做手边清楚的事情。未来是模糊地，然而现在所要做的事是清晰的。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>25.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">微笑。真心而自然的微笑，来自真心，来自对生活的热爱。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>26.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">看风景。最重要的是看风景的心情。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>27.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">重复。重复的暗示，重复的自我肯定，强大有力的积极重复，能把想你想要培养的好习惯变成潜意识。</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>28.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">思考你与周围环境的关系，思考你的优势，能给世界带来什么，能创造怎样的价值？</span></p>
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		<title>第十章 习惯七：不断更新——平衡的自我更新的原则</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[第十章 习惯七：不断更新——平衡的自我更新的原则 &#160; （1）自我检测 下面请你做自我核对，让你的良知 [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>第十章 习惯七：不断更新——平衡的自我更新的原则
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<h3>（1）自我检测</h3>
<div>下面请你做自我核对，让你的良知做自己的指导。对你确切回答是的问题打“√”</div>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal align=center><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"><strong>身体方面的核对表</strong></span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我经常了解自己在身材是否合适和健康方面的问题。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我每周至少锻炼三次，每次</span><span       lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>20~30</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">分钟。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我充分了解自己在维生素和微量元素方面的需求。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我有保持或增强自己力量的计划。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我的锻炼中包括增强心血管功能或灵活性的活动。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我的睡眠充足。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">身体需要的时候，我就休息或放松。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我应付压力的方法是积极而有效的。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我的日常饮食基于科学而且能满足我的日常活动。</span></p>
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<div align=center><font size=4><strong>精神方面的核对表</strong></font></div>
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<td>我确定了自己的价值观，而且据此计划生活并付诸实践。</td>
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<td>我已制定了使命宣言，据此确定有关自己生活目的的愿景。</td>
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<td>我通过深思、祈祷、研究或反省以达成每日的更新。</td>
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<td>我经常拜访某一确定地点，诸如大自然、体育馆、图书馆，以求得精神上的更新。</td>
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<td>我过着诚信而荣誉的生活。</td>
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<td>我心胸开阔，乐于接受真理。</td>
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<td>即使受到他人的反对，我也敢于坚持立场，说出真理。</td>
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<td>我经常服务他人而不期望任何回报。</td>
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<td>我能认识生活中哪些事是我能改变的、哪些事是我无法改变的，而且能把后者放置一旁，不让它干扰自己。</td>
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<td>我能在需要的时候取得心灵感的指导。</td>
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<td>我定期阅读书刊。</td>
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<td>我记日记或其他日志，或经常写作。</td>
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<td>我每天用音乐、静默或其他放松练习来让头脑清醒。</td>
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<td>我用智力测验、问题或游戏来锻炼自己的头脑。</td>
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<td>我有业余爱好。</td>
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<td>我坚持正规的或非正规的业余练习。</td>
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<td>我每周至少进行一次有意义的对话。</td>
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<td>我对于项目或计划进行心灵演练，用头脑中的最终结果来指导过程。</td>
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<td>我有系统工具可以在需要的时候搜索信息。</td>
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<td>我是可靠的、可以信赖的。</td>
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<td>我对生活前景抱着美好希望。</td>
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<td>我对自己的影响圈内的人给予信任和支持。</td>
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<td>我倾听他人的意见，而不是只想着自己要说的话。</td>
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<td>我设身处地关心他人。</td>
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<td>我维持着最重要的人际关系。</td>
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<td>我在必要的时候真诚道歉。</td>
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<td>我能坚持渡过艰难时刻。</td>
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<td>我知道照顾自己的重要意义。</td>
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<td>我能控制自己的冲动&#8211;冷静下来，而不是对别人或环境被动反应。</td>
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<div>希望前面的核对表能帮你开始设想自己的更新计划。你看到自己以已经做得不错的领域了吗？哪些领域你能利用外界的帮助？谈到更新活动，没有对错之分。但你制定的计划必须适用于你自己。</div>
<div></div>
<div>既然你已经完成了核对表，请花点时间想想下述问题。它们能帮你领悟你可能在哪儿失去了平衡，怎样达到生活的平衡，又怎样觉得恢复了精力。写下你的想法和反应。</div>
<div></div>
<div>1.如果你能选择五件有益于你灵魂的事情，你将选择哪些？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.什么因素使这五件事有益于你？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.什么事搅乱了你的生活？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.什么事让你半夜睡不着觉？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>5.你童年时喜欢做的事情是什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>6.回想你真正快乐的某个时刻。你种感觉是怎样的？你怎样才能重新找回这种感觉？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>7.怎样你才能加强自己的某项重要人际关系？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>8.什么事能激励你？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>9.你有关先辈的哪些回忆可以传给子孙？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>10.你能做什么让你的家庭记得你？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>11.上一次你严肃检讨自己是什么时候？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>12.什么事能触发你儿童时的奇妙感觉？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>13.如果你能建立一个安全的隐退处，它会是什么样的？你将怎样利用它？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>14.哪些事情你以后能少做些？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>15.哪些事你希望以后多做一些？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>16.哪些事使你目前的生活变复杂了？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>17.你能怎样让它变得简单？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>18.是否有这样的时候：你心里想拒绝，嘴里却说了同意。这是对于什么事情？对谁？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>你已经花功夫弄清了在不断更新方面自己的当前情况以及你的目标，让我们把问题分解为更容易处理的部分。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>计划</strong></div>
<div>如果你希望的是圆满的生活，你必须做计划并付诸实践。注意，计划和行动的一致能导致更新。</div>
<div></div>
<div>计划仅仅是描绘希望的蓝图。成功的计划有两个关键：细心的反思和时间上的保证。细心的反思有助于你确定哪些活动可以恢复你的精力。保证时间使制定计划成为每天和每周日程安排的优先。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>执行</strong></div>
<div>执行这个丰富你生活的计划，每天大约需要一小时。这完全在你的控制范围之内。记住，你完全可以把两个或更多方面的活动结合在一起。你可以在共同散步的时候改善相互关系。何不与朋友一起参加你们都感兴趣的课程呢？有各种各样特别适合你及你的生活方式的方法。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>评价</strong></div>
<div>不断更新是你给予自己的一件礼物，不是负担。让自己有时间在某个领域休整、跑步，然后起飞。执行了一段时间以后，评价自己的进步。评估自己的计划，看它是否满足了自己的需求。如果需要调整，那就去调整！这不是议程不变的。一旦觉得得心应手了，不妨进入计划的下一步。</div>
<div></div>
<div>计划、执行、评价，一段时间只做一样。如果觉得过分劳累，休息一下，想想哪些需要调整。这是为了减少压力，更新和增加平衡感，绝不是为了增加你的负担！</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（2）关爱我的身体</h3>
<div>为了达到身体上的更新，可能需要你超越关于适中身材和饮食的惯常概念。如果你弄不清自己的想法，请回顾开始处的“自我检测”核对表。其中某个未通过核对的项目可能就是很好的出发点。</div>
<div></div>
<div>花几分钟回答下列问题：</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>1.你的身体需要怎样的更新？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.是否有什么活动，你曾经看到其他人做过而且自己也想尝试一下？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你想学习更多有关营养的知识吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.你想学习更多有关保持适中身材的知识吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>列出你认为会给你的身体方面带来改善和更新的各种活动。一定要是你确实感兴趣的活动。如果明知道自己憎恨“去体育馆”，不愿这样做，而仍然要列上“去体育馆”，这并不能让自己有任何进步！列出自己确实感到享受的活动。你不会从自己的疲劳和厌烦中获得任何进步。你是要激活自己的潜力！</div>
<div></div>
<div>列出让自己的身体有所恢复和更新的活动：</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div><strong>计划</strong></div>
<div>从你列出的表格中选择一项适合目前需求的活动。把它写下来，再确认一次。例如，你的计划可以是“我将对自己的营养方案研究十天”</div>
<div>我将<u> </u></div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div>一旦你弄清了自己将采取什么行动，就可以做计划了。预定一个与自己的约会以开始这项活动。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>评价</strong></div>
<div>三到四周后，安排做一次评价。现在就列入日程表。评价时清点一下，什么起了作用，什么不起作用。把后者变更为你认为可能有效的活动。把你的成功以及需要修改的项目记录在下面。</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（3）爱护我的灵魂</h3>
<div>记下你的想法并回答下列问题：</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>1.哪种进取心能激发、奖励你，并让你追逐自己在生命中最珍视的？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.你能在哪种地方做哪类事，让你自己感到鼓舞以及精神上的更新？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你个人怎样与更伟大的力量取得联络？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.你的行动是否与你价值观一致？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>列出你所想到的精神更新活动。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>计划</strong></div>
<div>目前看来，你所列出的哪个有关更新的想法适用于你？把它写下来，再确认一次。</div>
<div>我将____________</div>
<div></div>
<div>设定实行自己计划的次数以及具体日期和时间。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>评价</strong></div>
<div>确定一个时间，也许是三到四周以后，你可以对于自己的进步做一次评价。计划进行得如何？你是否感到影响遍及你整个生活和精神上的更新。如果没有，你能做些什么调整？把你的成功以及需要修改的项目记录在下面。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（4）丰富我的头脑</h3>
<div>智力的成长有各种各样的途径，并不一定都有证书，尽管证书也是重要的。小说、艺术、教育电视、智力测验以及游戏也都能培育你的智力。</div>
<div></div>
<div>记下你的想法并回答下列问题：</div>
<div>1.你喜欢求解某些类型的智力测验吗？哪种类型？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.你曾尝试过写诗吗？写出的诗怎么样？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你愿意学习怎样做简单的汽车维修或家电维修吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.你是否有你一直感兴趣的事？那是什么事情？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>5.你喜欢阅读或参观博物馆吗？喜欢哪类书籍？哪类博物馆？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>6.你想培养什么业余爱好或手艺吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>现在列出你对于智力上的更新活动的想法。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>计划</strong></div>
<div>选择你想由此开始的某个想法。把它写下来作为确认。</div>
<div>我将<u> </u></div>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div>如果你决定学习一种新技能，你可能需要每周设定一个或两个时间段，连续安排几个星期。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>评价</strong></div>
<div>月底安排一次自我评价。现在就列入你的日程安排。评价时，检查自己的更新计划起了多大的作用。做一些必要的调整和改变。把你的进步记录在下面。</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（5）保护我的情感</h3>
<div>写下你对下述问题的回答和想法：</div>
<div>1.你有一个安全而不受干扰的静修之地吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.在你周围有你的真诚支持者吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你有没有考虑过和自己外出约会一次？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.你是否让自己信仰自己的目标和梦想？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>5.你是否了解怎样满足自己的需求？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>反思过去的某个时刻或经历，那时你感到自己被接受、被关爱。你能想到你向别人提供类似服务的时刻吗？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>列出你对自我更新的想法，你现在能做些什么呢？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>计划</strong></div>
<div>哪个想法看来最快生效？把它写下来作为确认。</div>
<div>我将<u> </u></div>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>为实现这个想法编制具体计划。尝试在你计划的头两周内安排相应的时间。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>评价</strong></div>
<div>把起作用的和不起作用的内容都记录在下面。你准备做些什么来让计划能起作用？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（6）维护更新我的人脉</h3>
<div>请回答下述问题：</div>
<div>1.你想怎样加强与你的合伙人或配偶的关系？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.你是否想更深入了解怎样的存款才能对涉及某种关系的人起作用？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你是否要为某个人设定专门的时间？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.你是否想帮你童年时的学校排疑解难？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>5.你是否想要更谦恭，更有礼貌？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>6.你是否想学习怎样善于倾听？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>为了改善自己的社会关系，你想采取什么行动，请列在下面。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<p><strong>计划</strong>
<div>哪个想法你想立刻开始实行？把它写下来作为确认。</div>
<div>我将<u> </u></div>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div>为改善这个关系在下周安排具体时间</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong></strong></div>
<div><strong>评价</strong></div>
<div>如果你希望自己的社会/情感层面得到更新，你必须安排相应的活动和评估，并更经常地关注这些人际关系。第一周以后不妨评估一下自己的成功和进步。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>如果你足够勇敢，尝试寻求反馈意见。询问别人的看法来核对自己的进步。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
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<h3>（1）你对差异有多尊重</h3>
<div>在你能充分利用他人的优势之前，你首先要承认并尊重他们的差异。那么，你到底对于差异有多尊重？做一做下面的小练习。</div>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">当我听到不同的意见，我让他详细阐述自己的想法。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">出现分歧时，表达自己的意见比顺从大多数人的意见更加重要。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我经常和与我持不同意见的人共同工作。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我试图利用他人的知识和技能来更好地完成任务。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我发现由具有不同背景的人组成工作小组非常有益。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我深信每个人都以独特的方式对自己的家庭和组织做出贡献。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>7.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我积极寻找机会向他人学习。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>8.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我与他人分享自己的观点，尽管我们的观点有所不同。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>9.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">致力于某个项目时，我寻求不同的想法和意见。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>10.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">当我参与创造性工作时，我倾向于大家一起开动脑筋、集思广益，而不是依赖专家的意见。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>对于表中的叙述，你认为哪个数字（从1到5）最适用于描述你通常的行为或态度，请圈出来。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>得分评价：</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>41~50分：充分发挥了与他人的差异的作用。</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>21~40分：一般地发挥了与他人的差异的作用。</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>10~20分：没有发挥与他人的差异的作用。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<h3>（2）职业练习</h3>
<div>写下你的一个同事的名字。把他/她的品质写在下面。</div>
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<div>才智/能力（组织、知识、决断、艺术、计划、招聘、写作，等等）</div>
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<div>背景（教育、种族、性别、经济状况、成长的地方，等等）</div>
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<div>人际关系方面的技能（倾听、讲话、教师、指导、角色模范，等等）</div>
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<div>性格特征（幽默感、管理才能、可靠、诚实、勤奋、武断，等等）</div>
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<div>他与你的差别有多大？</div>
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<div>这些差异能怎样帮你们完成共同的事业？</div>
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<h3>（3）尊重差异带来的改进。</h3>
<div>当你拒绝那个想法的时候，是什么因素让你作出这个决定的？让你作出这个决定的是那个想法本身，还是提出的人，或者是提出的方式？因为那不是你的想法，所以你不喜欢它？</div>
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<div>当时你的内心独白是什么？它是在说：“这行不通”，“你这个疯子”，还是“我们以前从未这样干过”。</div>
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<div>如果这是在工作（团队工作）中发生的，是否是“群众心理”在作怪？大家拒绝那个想法，是因为它不符合团队的典型想法吗？若是，怎样不符合？</div>
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<h4>（4）你能讲述吗</h4>
<div>用是或否回答下列问题。回答前头脑中想着生活中的某个具体场合。</div>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我通常的态度是消极而不是积极。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我害怕别人发现我不像他们心中想的那样。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3 style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p>（5）你是否经常提拔统合综效的员工</o:p></span></h3>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p>利用下面的练习，评估你自己是否经常提拔统合综效的员工。</o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p>你认为哪个数字（从1到5）最适用于描述你在这方面的当前情况，请圈出来。在回答了所有问题后，把你的得分加起来就可以进行评估了。</o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">问题</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">从不</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">偶尔</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">有时</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">经常</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">总是</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我向其他人提出问题和挑战。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在与他人沟通时，我是诚实和坦率的。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我信守诺言。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在紧急情况下我也能保持冷静。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我清晰地传达自己的感受。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">在对他人的期望上，我是现实主义的。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>7.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我与他人分享成功与荣誉。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>8.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我尊重不同意见，并真诚寻求理解他们。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>9.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我讨论问题时不夸大其词。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>10.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">当工作出了问题时，我不推卸责任。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>得分评估：</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>45~50：成绩卓著！你是个高超的统合综效促进者。</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>23~44：做得不错。请保持。</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>11~22：要注意了，你在阻碍统合综效发挥作用。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<h3 style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p>（6）开辟第三变通方案</o:p></span></h3>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>选择某个你想达成协作增效的目的的问题或人际关系，利用五个步骤寻找第三变通方案：</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>1.详细说明问题或机遇。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>2.倾听别人的意见。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>3.讲述你自己的意见。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>4.大家一起开动脑筋，集思广益。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>5.共同找到最佳方案。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>在你已就上述问题达成了统合综效的目的之后，花几分钟写下：</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>这种途径在哪些方面与你过去常用的方法有区别？新的方式使你有何感受？对你来说困难吗？你讲采取什么步骤以保证以后会继续采用这种方法？</font></o:p></span></p>
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<h3 style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p>（7）越过通往统合综效的障碍</o:p></span></h3>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>你在生活中是否发现有些人总是激怒你、让你发狂？他们做了什么事让你如此愤怒？</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal       align=center><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">谁</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>回头看看这些激怒你的事情。它们是什么性质的问题？品格问题（缺乏诚信或自律？）能力问题（完不成任务）？个性问题？你个人的厌恶和烦恼？确定一下哪些你能直接控制，哪些你能间接控制，那些是你无法控制的。</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>从每个领域选择一个问题。对于这几个问题，你能怎样影响其统合综效？</font></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>直接控制：</font></o:p></span></p>
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		<title>第八章 习惯五：知彼解己——移情沟通的原则</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 05:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[高效能人士的七个习惯]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[第八章 习惯五：知彼解己——移情沟通的原则 （1）嘿，你在倾听吗？ 从一分到四分，你认为下面这些人会给你的倾听 [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>第八章 习惯五：知彼解己——移情沟通的原则<br />
<h3>（1）嘿，你在倾听吗？</h3>
<div>从一分到四分，你认为下面这些人会给你的倾听技巧打几分？</div>
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<div>请回忆某个人没有好好听你说的话就准备好回答的情况。你当时感觉如何？</div>
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<div>你什么时候最容易不专心听对方的讲话，为什么？</div>
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<h2>（2）我是怎样倾听的</h2>
<div>选择一个你认为构成挑战的人际关系。本周内，注意倾听并记下你在与他交谈中的回答。判断你的回应是哪一种，评价、探查、建议还是解释？</div>
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<div>在本周末，回顾自己的回答。下次你怎样改进自己的倾听？你会有什么不同？</div>
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<h3>（3）倾听练习</h3>
<div>下次有机会观察别人交谈的时候，捂住耳朵几分钟，只观察身体语言。“倾听”他们的手势、姿态以及面部表情。哪些感情人们可以不仅仅通过语言来交流？</div>
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<div>本周选择两个人，当你听他们谈话的时候，同时“倾听”他们的身体语言。</div>
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<div>他们的身体语言是否与他们所说的话一致？</div>
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<div>如果不相符，你会怎么做？</div>
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<h3>（4）培养倾听意识</h3>
<div>本周，选择你希望能够重新再来一次的谈话。</div>
<div>与谁谈话？</div>
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<div>何时进行的交谈？</div>
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<div>谈话的主题是什么？</div>
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<div>为何你希望能重新再来一次？</div>
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<div>发生了什么事？</div>
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<div>你能具体做些什么来改进自己在这次谈话中的倾听？</div>
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<div>你希望设身处地倾听进行的谈话应当是怎样的，请写下来。</div>
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<h3>（5）我的性格</h3>
<div>我的什么让别人相信我？</div>
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<div>我的什么让别人不信任我？</div>
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<div>我的什么行为过热或过冷？例如，什么时候我过分挑剔，什么时候又过分宽容？</div>
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<div>我在私下场合的行为是否与我在公众场合的行为相符？如果不符，为什么？差别是什么？</div>
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<h3>（6）评价我的交流</h3>
<div>回想最近的电话、电子邮件或面对面的交谈，其中你首先说明了自己的需求。</div>
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<div>与谁谈话？</div>
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<div>何时进行的交谈？</div>
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<div>谈话的主题是什么？</div>
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<div>发生了什么事？</div>
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<div>如果你首先说明对方的需求，那结果可能会有何不同？</div>
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<div>你是否清楚而具体地表达了自己的想法和逻辑？如果没有，把它们写在下面。</div>
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<div>如果你清楚而具体地表达了自己的想法和逻辑，那结果可能会有何不同？</div>
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		<title>第七章 习惯四：双赢思维——人际领导的原则</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[第七章 习惯四：双赢思维——人际领导的原则 （1）培养双赢思维 关系1： 关系中的平衡情况： 需要采取的行动： [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>第七章 习惯四：双赢思维——人际领导的原则<br />
<h3>（1）培养双赢思维</h3>
<div>关系1：</div>
<div>关系中的平衡情况：</div>
<div>需要采取的行动：</div>
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<div>关系2：</div>
<div>关系中的平衡情况：</div>
<div>需要采取的行动：</div>
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<h3>（2）换位思考</h3>
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<div>从上面的练习中选择一个你想达到双赢的关系，遵循下述步骤：</div>
<div>把自己放在对方的位置，明确写下你认为对方对于目前情况是怎样理解的。</div>
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<div>从你的角度，写下你认为你赢的结果是怎样的。</div>
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<div>直接找到他/她，问他/她是否愿意与你沟通，直到找到一个双方受益的解决方案。</div>
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<h3>（3）寻找双赢机会的问题</h3>
<div>下面的问题帮你在特定情况或特定关系中开始达成双赢协议。</div>
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<div>问题：你想用双赢方法解决或改进什么重要的关系或问题？</div>
<div>回答：</div>
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<div>问题：你的心态是富足的（每个人都能赢）还是贫乏的（你必须赢）？</div>
<div>回答：</div>
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<div>问题：若你抱着我胜你败的心态行动，你认为会发生什么事情？</div>
<div>回答：</div>
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<div>问题：若你抱着双赢的心态处理这个关系或问题，你认为会发生什么事？你能预见什么收获吗？</div>
<div>回答：</div>
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<div>问题：你想做些什么来保证自己能收获双赢方法产生效益？</div>
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<div>问题：你想何时采取行动？</div>
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<h4>（4）双赢协议</h4>
<div>预期结果：</div>
<div>指导方针：</div>
<div>可用资源：</div>
<div>任务考核：</div>
<div>奖惩制度：</div>
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<div>下一步：</div>
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<div>对自己承诺，在某个具体的生活领域实践双赢方法。利用下表把计划付诸行动。利用第一栏核对该元素是否已经实现。</div>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">涉及的人所设想的是否都是同一结果？</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">这结果是否对双方有利？</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><font face=Calibri><font size=3><span lang=EN-US><o:p>经常实践双赢方法的人培育了高度信任的相互关系。为什么？因为他们对待他人就像他们希望别人怎样对待自己一样。</o:p></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p>利用下面的核对表来检查自己在人际关系方面做得怎样。挑出那些你在90%以上的时间都这样做的项目。</o:p></span></font></font></p>
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<li>你的行动与自己的承诺、价值观和感情保持一致。（你怎样说就怎样做——诚信。）
<li>你敢于表达自己的感觉和想法，并体谅他人的感觉和想法。
<li>你相信有足够多的利益可以让大家分享。你有富足的心态。
<li>你相信人们在尽自己最大努力，他们值得尊重、善意而且体谅。
<li>你设身处地地倾听并寻求理解他人的情况、行为和决定。你说明自己的情况，解释自己的行为，力求证明自己的决定正确。
<li>你在沟通中传达清晰的期望。
<li>你的关注集中于积极的方面，但也对可以改进之处提出建设性的反馈意见。</li>
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		<title>第六章 人际关系的本质</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 05:02:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[剑飞]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[高效能人士的七个习惯]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[第六章 人际关系的本质 （1）感情账户的评估 人名：&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#038;nbsp [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>第六章 人际关系的本质<br />
<h3>（1）感情账户的评估</h3>
<div>人名<u>：&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </u></div>
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<div>通过评估你与某人之间感情账户的存款和提款情况，来审查你与他之间的关系如何。存款用（+），提款用（-）。对于每次提款，记下你以后可以做什么改进以建立存款、修补信任。</div>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">（</span><span       lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>+</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">，</span><span       lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>-</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">）</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">若有必要就道歉</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<h3>（2）你的感情账户是否透支了</h3>
<div>现在是评估你感情账户的时候了。选择你想改进的两个人的关系，利用上述工具来确定你与他们的信任度结余是正的还是负的。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>利用下面的感情账户日志来记录你在下周与某人交往时的行为和言语。</div>
<div></div>
<div>记住：这不是得分表，只不过是一个工具，能帮你自觉意识到自己的存款或提款。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal align=center><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">感情账户日志</span></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal align=center><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin"></span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></font>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal align=center><font size=3><span style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">人名：&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span lang=EN-US><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face=Calibri>&nbsp;</font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">日期：&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">行动</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">存款（</span><span       lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>+</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">）</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">提款（</span><span       lang=EN-US><font face=Calibri>-</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">）</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri></font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>写出三件你觉得对方会认可为存款的事情，确定你怎样去完成这些存款。</font></o:p></span></p>
<div><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>可能的存款（将来要做的）</font> </o:p></span></div>
<div><span lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span>&nbsp;</div>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>写出三件你认为对方会觉得是提款的事情。</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>可能的提款（将来要做的）</font> </o:p></span></p>
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		<title>第五章 习惯三：要事第一——自我管理的原则</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[第五章 习惯三：要事第一——自我管理的原则 &#160; （1）我的时间是怎样度过的 问题 很不同意 不同意  [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>第五章 习惯三：要事第一——自我管理的原则 </h2>
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<h3>（1）我的时间是怎样度过的</h3>
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<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal       align=center><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">问题</span><span       lang=EN-US><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns =       "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">很不同意</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">不同意</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">略不同意</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">略微同意</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">同意</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">很同意</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我花了很多十佳你在重要而且需要立刻关注的活动上，例如危机、紧迫问题、截止日期即将到期的项目。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我觉得总是“到处救火”，不断处理危机。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我觉得自己浪费了好多时间。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我花了很多时间在虽然紧迫但与我的最高优先毫无关系的事情上（诸如无端的干扰、不重要的会议、非紧急的电话和电子邮件）</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 5">
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我花了很多时间在重要但不紧迫的事务上，例如做计划、准备、防范、改善人际关系、恢复和休整。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 6">
<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我花了很多时间在繁忙的工作、强制性习惯、垃圾邮件、过多的电视节目、琐事和玩游戏上。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 7">
<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>7.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我觉得由于防范得当、精心准备和周密计划，一切由我掌控。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 232.2pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=387>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>8.</font></span><span       style="FONT-FAMILY: '微软雅黑','sans-serif'; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 微软雅黑; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin">我觉得自己总是在处理他人重要、但却对我并不重要的事情。</span><span       lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 41pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>1<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>2<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 42.55pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=71>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>3<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 40.95pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=68>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>4<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 22.8pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=38>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>5<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<td     style="BORDER-BOTTOM: windowtext 1pt solid; BORDER-LEFT: #f0f0f0; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; WIDTH: 23.9pt; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: #f0f0f0; BORDER-RIGHT: windowtext 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt"     vAlign=top width=40>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><font       face=Calibri>6<o:p></o:p></font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>&nbsp;</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri>以上表格设计，是用来帮助你快速评估自己花费在时间矩阵的每个象限中的之间和精力各有多少。</font></o:p></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p><font size=3 face=Calibri></font></o:p></span>&nbsp;</p>
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<div>画一个时间管理的矩阵，按照百分比将你的时间分配给每一类事务。然后以十五分钟为计时单位连续记录三天自己的活动情况。对照一下自己的计划，看是否有很大的初入。你对自己这样使用时间感到满意吗？你认为需要做哪些改变呢？</div>
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<h3>（2）我的周任务</h3>
<div>回顾你的使命宣言、角色、目标以及目前的每周计划。本周最优先的三项事务是什么？它们是你的第二象限活动。把它们写在下面。</div>
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<div>2.</div>
<div>3.</div>
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<div></div>
<div>记录你下周的时间是怎样度过的，并把各项活动填入上面时间管理矩阵的相应象限中。</div>
<div></div>
<div>你满足了自己的第二象限优先的准则了吗？如果没有，为什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（3）我的目标</h3>
<div>你已经找到了自己的大部分时间用在哪些领域。你是否有兴趣排除障碍？你是否有兴趣让自己摆脱第一象限、第三象限和第四象限并转向第二象限？让我们设想你能做到。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>你的生活把你引向何方？哪些小问题正影响着你力量的发挥？你的目标是什么？你对于自己在生活中的现状有何想法，请花几分钟把它写下来。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>如果你不时会在生活中遇到困难并挣扎一番，那并不说明你有什么问题。很多人都这样。经常思考什么是自己的要事，有助于让你在旅途上不断进步。想着自己的要事，回答下述问题：</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>1.你是否确实想努力实现自己的目的，贯彻自己的意图？若是，为什么？若不是，又为什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.什么东西在你的生活中能起作用，什么东西不起作用？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你希望自己的生活有何变更？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.在你被各种大小事务淹没之前，列出几项你目前就能做出的小改革，暂不涉及全面的重大改革。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>5.你已写下几项你目前就能做出的小改革了，现在请列出几项有助于你在生活上取得进步的长期目标和战略。你也不妨回过头看一下习惯二中制定的目标。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>6.你准备怎样为贯彻自己的目标和战略负起责任？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（4）我的价值观</h3>
<div>你在回答有关目标的问题的时候，你是否发现自己的价值观有时会突然冒出来？这并不奇怪，因为在某种意义上，目标是由价值观决定的。时间管理和生活管理（第四代时间管理）承认，人比物更重要。它有助于确定你每天的方向和目的。你的生活是否符合你的信仰？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>回答下述问题，探讨再次出现的主题。</div>
<div>1.你想致力于什么事业？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>2.你对什么事情最感兴趣？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>3.你对什么事情热情最高？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>4.什么事情对你最重要？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>5.你想成就什么事业？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>6.你信仰什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>7.你的潜力是什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>8.你赞成什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>9.什么价值观对你最重要？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>对于你的现状、关注重点以及生活目标，你现在是否有了一些认识？严肃深入地考察自己的生活，这绝非易事。信仰能给你力量，虽然不一定能让生活变得容易。坚持这个过程有助于你清晰地认识并理解自己最优先的事情究竟在哪里。下一步是审查你的各种角色以及怎样让它们取得平衡。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（5）你的角色</h3>
<div>你在习惯二中列出了自己的日常角色。这些角色与习惯三以及要事之间结合得怎样？与你的目标和价值观之间呢？当你利用自己选择的工具做计划时，一定要对每个关键角色安排适当的活到哪个计划。</div>
<div></div>
<div>列出关键角色的清单，记下你想在下周为每个角色安排的活动。请记住，你比一定为每个角色分配具体的任务或约会。你可以列出一般性的要求，例如在家长的角色下写上“做一个更好的倾听者”。关键问题是“在这个角色上本周我能做的最重要的事是什么”。</div>
<div>1.</div>
<div>2.</div>
<div>3.</div>
<div>4.</div>
<div>5.</div>
<div>6.</div>
<div>7.</div>
<div></div>
<div>把你所写的存入适当的地方。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（6）我的优先</h3>
<div>围绕优先事务来安排自己的生活，这似乎是个令人畏缩和气馁的任务。实际上，这是个简单而清晰的过程，它能帮你在生活中不断前行，只是你清楚自己的优先事务是什么。</div>
<div></div>
<div>你最重要的五个优先事务是什么？把它们写在下面。</div>
<div>1.</div>
<div>2.</div>
<div>3.</div>
<div>4.</div>
<div>5.</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>你认为自己能完成上述所有五个优先事务的想法是否现实？你是否想过将有些事授权他人去完成？</div>
<div></div>
<div>回头再看看你列出的五个优先事务。思索几分钟，然后按重要性给它们排出先后顺序，并写在下面。</div>
<div>1.</div>
<div>2.</div>
<div>3.</div>
<div>4.</div>
<div>5.</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>现在来看第四个和第五个优先事务，决定你能怎样授权，至少授权每件事务的一小部分给其他人，这样你就能花最少的精力而仍然让它们有所进展。写下你的计划。</div>
<div></div>
<div>在前三个优先中，是否也有什么事可以授权他人？请记录在下面。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（7）建立我的信任</h3>
<div>你在做上述练习的时候，脑子里是否想着没有什么能信任的人？你可能认为还不如自己做来得更快、更容易，这样做只是为了让他人得以成长和发展？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>回头看你准备授权他人的事务。你选择的是哪一种授权——“充分信任型”还是“下达指令型”？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>现在从“充分信任型”授权的角度来看这个清单。通过提供成长的机会来培养相互信任。你想对自己的授权做怎样的变动？把变动记录在下面，并按此行动。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（8）每天和每周计划</h3>
<div>阅读附录二，以期更深入地理解以第二类事务为中心的思维定势所产生的深刻影响。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>到现在为止，你已经确定了自己的目的、价值观、角色和要事。你怎么能保证自己的要事被却认为要事，而且继续保持要事的地位呢？我们发现，最好的办法就是做每周计划。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>编制每周计划帮你实现第四代时间管理和生活管理。与简单的一天相比，它提供了更宽广的背景。要真正给优先事务安排进度计划，从一周的角度能做得最好。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>在要事第一方面取得进步的时候，每周应投资二三十分钟做一个周计划。做计划时，可遵循下述步骤：</div>
<div>1.写下你的关键角色。</div>
<div>2.选择一个或两个优先事务，本周集中予以关注。</div>
<div>3.以一周为背景，为自己的任务和约会</div>
<div>4.利用A、B、C、D、1、2、3给优先事务排顺序，逐日做一些调整。</div>
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		<title>第四章 习惯二：以终为始——自我领导的原则</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[使命宣言参考列表： 家庭第一。 未听取正反方以意见，不妄下断语。 维护不在场的人。 每年掌握一种新技能。 今天 [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>使命宣言参考列表：</h3>
<ul>
<li>家庭第一。</li>
<li>未听取正反方以意见，不妄下断语。</li>
<li>维护不在场的人。</li>
<li>每年掌握一种新技能。</li>
<li>今天计划明天的工作。</li>
<li>利用等待的空闲时间。</li>
<li>态度积极。</li>
<li>保持幽默感。</li>
<li>生活与工作有条不紊。</li>
<li>多请教别人。</li>
</ul>
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<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>把你本章开篇的参加葬礼心灵演练的新的列表整理下来。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div></div>
<h3>（1）检查你的愿景</h3>
<div>现在是时候了，让我们对自己的愿景作一次检查。花一分钟思考下述问题，写下你的想法。</div>
<div></div>
<div>我现在的生活状况如何？它是否让我快乐？我是否有成就感？</div>
<div></div>
<div><u>答案：</u></div>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div>是什么在一直吸引着我？它是否与我目前正在做的事情有所不同？</div>
<div></div>
<div><u>答案：</u></div>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div>我少年时想做的是什么？这些事情仍然带给我满足感吗？我目前是在做着其中的一些事情吗？</div>
<div></div>
<div>目前最让我感兴趣的是什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>最让我的灵魂感到满足的是什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>我做什么事情最擅长？我的显著特点和优势是什么？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<h3>（2）制定一份个人使命宣言</h3>
<div>制定使命宣言的六个步骤。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong><font color=#ff0000>步骤1：开动脑筋畅想</font></strong></div>
<div>将你对下面三个问题的回答一口气写下来，不要停顿。这是自由发挥。如果你想到了一个观点，别太在意用词和语法，只管不停地写下去。记住，你只是在畅想，不是定稿，目的是把自己的想法写在纸上。在每个问题上花2~3分钟。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>1.标识一个对你有影响的人。</strong></div>
<div>确定一个对你的生活有积极影响的人。你最赞赏这个人的什么品质？你从这个人学到了什么品质？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong></strong></div>
<div><strong>2.详细说明你想成为怎样的人。</strong></div>
<div>设想现在已是20年后，你已经达成了自己所希望的所有成就。你的成就清单是什么？你想拥有什么？你想成为怎样的人？你想成就怎样的事业？</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong>3.请确定，目前对你最重要的是什么？</strong></div>
<div><strong></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><font color=#ff0000><strong>步骤2：放松一下</strong></font></div>
<div>现在深呼吸一下，然后放松下来。把你写的放在一边，走开几分钟。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><font color=#ff0000><strong>步骤3：整理你的思绪</strong></font></div>
<div>回顾你所写的，圈出你想列入自己使命宣言的关键想法、语句和词语。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div><font color=#ff0000><strong>步骤4：写出初稿</strong></font></div>
<div>现在是写出你的初稿的时候了。前文已经列举了几个使命宣言的范本，以助于你思考。一周内随身带着这个初稿，每天写下备注或根据需要加以增删。也许每天或每两天你都想重写一份初稿。这是一个不断进行的过程。你的使命宣言将随着时间而不断修改。现在，花一点时间写出你的使命宣言初稿。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div align=center><font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffd700" color=#ff0000 size=4><strong>使命宣言初稿</strong></font></div>
<div align=center><font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffd700"></font>&nbsp;</div>
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<div><u></u></div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div><u></u></div>
<div><strong><font color=#ff0000>步骤5：完成你的使命宣言</font></strong></div>
<div>周末写出你的使命宣言的定稿。放在一个便于随时翻阅的地方。</div>
<div align=center><font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffd700" color=#ff0000 size=4><strong>我的使命宣言</strong></font></div>
<div align=center><font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffd700"></font>&nbsp;</div>
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<div align=left><strong><font color=#ff0000>步骤6：定期检查并加以评估</font></strong></div>
<div align=left>每个月问自己下列问题：</div>
<ul>
<li>
<div align=left>我是否觉得这个使命宣言代表了最佳的自我？</div>
<li>
<div align=left>当我回顾这个使命宣言的时候是否感到有了方向、目标、挑战和动力？</div>
<li>
<div align=left>我的生活是否遵从了这个使命宣言中的理想和价值观？</div>
</li>
</ul>
<div align=left></div>
<h3 align=left>（3）你的角色</h3>
<div align=left>既然你已有了逐步进展中的个人使命宣言初稿，重要的是考虑你在生活中的角色和目标，以及它们与你的使命宣言有着怎样的关系。</div>
<div align=left>&nbsp;</div>
<div align=left></div>
<div align=left>在下面的空白处写下你的各个角色。别太在意一次把它们弄正确。只要写下你觉得正确的就行。尝试把列出的角色限制在七个以内。如果超过了七个，可以把若干职能并为一个。在写下的角色旁边描述一下，你认为自己可能在该角色领域做出的最理想的成绩。</div>
<div align=left>&nbsp;</div>
<div align=left></div>
<div align=left>例如：</div>
<div align=left>艺术家 护理者 同伴 指导者 激励者 朋友 祖父母 发明家 邻居 调解者 儿子 教师 训练员 志愿者 作家</div>
<div align=left>&nbsp;</div>
<div align=left></div>
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<table style="WIDTH: 100%" border=1 align=center>
<tbody>
<tr>
<td style="WIDTH: 50%">
<div align=center>角色 </div>
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<div align=center>在角色领域最理想的业绩</div>
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<div></div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<h3>（4）你的生活中心</h3>
<div>阅读本书的附录一所列的各种生活中心，看看你的行为符合其中哪个类型？他们是否让你的日常行为有了一定的依据？你是否满意？</div>
<div></div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<h4>（5）告诉你自己怎么做</h4>
<div>设想近期内可能会从事的某个项目，用智力创造的原则，写下你希望获得的结果与应采取的步骤。</div>
<div></div>
<div>向家人或者同事讲述本章的精华，并建议大家共同拟定家庭或者团队的使命宣言。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
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		<title>第三章 习惯一：积极主动——个人愿景的原则</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 11:26:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<h3>（1）培养积极主动性</h3>
<div>积极的人使用积极的语言：“我能”“我要”“我宁愿”等等。</div>
<div></div>
<div>想想过去几周内自己以消极方式做出回应的两三件事情。描述一下自己是怎么说的。</div>
<div><u>1.</u></div>
<div><u>2.</u></div>
<div><u>3.</u></div>
<p><span id="more-953"></span>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>现在，想想在同样情况下自己可以采取的几种积极的回应。请写在下面。</div>
<div><u>1.</u></div>
<div><u>2.</u></div>
<div><u>3.</u></div>
<div><u></u>&nbsp;</div>
<div></div>
<div>请记住，在下周自习倾听自己使用的语言，你的语言更积极了吗？</div>
<div><u>笔记：2012年6月20日 18:02:24</u></div>
<div><u>积极是一种长期的行动；我们应该每时每刻都要加强语言形态的积极言词，使得自己保持积极。</u></div>
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<h3>（2）你的圈子有多大</h3>
<div>写下你在本周内所面临的各种挑战和问题。它们分别归入那个圈子？你的瞬间回应又是什么？</div>
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<div>你需要设法让自己的影响圈逐步扩大。这两个圈子中，从每个圈子选一个你本来打算在下周做出应对的挑战。你讲怎样改变自己的回应以更有效地应对该挑战？</div>
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<div>1.影响圈</div>
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<div>2.关注圈</div>
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<div>（3）找出一个在工作或生活中令你备感挫折的问题，判断它属于直接控制、间接控制还是无法控制的问题，然后在影响圈内找出解决问题的第一个步骤，并付诸行动。</div>
<div><u>问题：</u></div>
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<div><u>试行“积极主动”的原则30天，写下自己的</u></div>
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